Ask a Virgin: Relationship Advice from Internet People

I never said anything about bein a thug, I said about talkin' to them like you don't care. You don't have to be a thug to do this. Treatin a girl like crap doesn't necessarily mean you always got to talk bad about them, but I also mean things like ignoring them, showing no signs of affection, and go about your business like it matters weither they are there or not. When I hear thug I think abusive, and to this point I have never laid my hands on a woman.

I do agree with alot you say in this post, those girls are idiots, and one of the main reasons why you will almost never see a girl on my arm in a relationship. I would never date girls that act like that on any forms or fashion, I just noticed that the majority of them want this negativity in their relationship. I dunno, maybe it is because of my location, but I've been in alot of locations and have talked to alot of women around the globe and they all seem to share this characteristics of wanting to be treated like crap, way more often than not around here. I dated a puerto rican girl when I was in New York and she would purposly get me mad cause she thought I looked good when I was angry, that's some of the dumbest shit in the world and some shit I will never do again. Lol, ugh too many stories......

I don't actually treat a woman bad to hold her interest, but I will ignore the chick and talk to her dumb and she will end up staying. By then i'm shaking my head and knowin' it's goin to a fuck only, and alot of times by then I don't even want it anymore. I'm very high maintenence when it comes to dating women.

Example, I'll be witty self and get to a certain point, by then i'll know if it's goin towards sex or friends. If she shows signs of only wanting to be around bs then I just play the role up until the point of sex, and let her know i'm not lookin' for a relationship before it happens. After it happens I just smh and move on. If she actually shows she's competent then I will actually talk to her and see if we have common interest, and if we do, then DING DING DING I have a winner and I move towards a relationship. But usally with my common interest on top of what I like to see in women, there's a 5% chance to get what I want. So yea I know they exist, but the majority of them just want to be treated like crap....

And LMAO at the title I love it. I wish I was still a virgin actually though, then I wouldn't have been tainted by that which is the pursue of vagina.

Edit: IFB the reason why I say 1950's cause around that time alot of women were looking for marriage and that suburban lifestyle. It was just a metaphore I was using to say back in the day, it wasn't ment to be takin completly to the date. I'll change and say 1980's then.

What I was basically trying to say is majority of women do not want that type of relationship anymore, and it's growning more and more. Me knowing that the majority of women want to be treated like crap I just shake my head and do my own thing, and when they have the nerve to wonder why I just have sex and why they can't find someone 'real' I shake my head even more and try to explain to the simple girls. Which of course to no avail will it work they go and repeat back to square one. Lol, It's almost like the chick is comin out and sayin "omg i'm so mad at you cause you haven't been treating me like a bitch!"

I dunno, maybe I just attract dumb chicks

I also think that just because women want to be dominated in bed doesn't mean they wanna be treated like "crap". I think one's personality must be distinct from their sexuality. Maybe the girl wants to be taken for lust, but if you think outside of sexual attraction then it doesn't always have to be "game on". If the sexual relationship has already been established, I actually prefer to be genuine friends unless we manage to see each other alone on occasion. That way I don't have to play games with her. And the seduction process only needs to be played in bed, not beyond that. It's relaxing. Plus you stay friends for who knows how long.

I was going to write some words of wisdom, but then I realized that this is the internet and we don't need any of that shit you know what I'm saying?

Landslide:

Yeah but it's not like all of us don't know each other. Sharing opinions is fine. Just make sure it makes sense or else.

Well, from my perspective as a "nice guy" who is currently in a super serious relationship with an awesome girl that I love and loves me, it's pretty obvious that people have a super inflated image of themselves reserved for when they go after girls. ESPECIALLY when they get burned. It's just stuff people have been saying: it isn't necessarily that girls aren't into nice guys, but what they AREN'T into are awkward, overly sensitive people that dote on them like a broken record. Yeah, some girls like assholes but not the ones that you want to STAY with.

Me, I wanted a relationship. If you want someone serious you have to clean yourself up a little sometimes. Not exactly wisdom, but who the hell am I anyway?

Why do i like your taste in men so much? But you know full well all the guys you like are tops! lol

Well it use to happen but the crazyness really jumped 20x fold since I've been gettin' in shape. Since girls finding me more attractive they rather drool first and ask questions later, and all but 1 this semester has shown me that they have no sense at all.

Like this situation where this white girl came up to my room when I was chillin' with my homeboys and actin a foo. I later find out from a frat brother of mine she wanted to date me. So I sit her down and asked her why and these was her exact words "cause I think you look good!". I was thinkin' in my head 'what the fuck, you can't date someone on appearance alone!" and just told her I wasn't lookin' for a relationship but she proceeded to the sex anyways. So later on down the road this chick gets mad cause I was 'bein an idiot, and didn't treat her good' which after knownin her for this month and experiences previously that's a translation for 'you didn't tell me the things I wanted to hear and treat me the way you where suppose to treat me'. Now take this in mind this chick got mad at me after I already laid down the ground rules and was bein nice, but since I didn't ignore the bitches texts and actually even said anything after we fucked it went downhill. Now me knownin that all I had to do was ignore the chick and when I was around her just told her what she wanted to here, this chick would've still been on me and wanted more intercourse. But me bein the person I am by heart, I got into drama from another retarted situation cause I didn't treat the woman like shit. I mean truth be told I never had any intention of dating the girl, but if a nice guy did come around that chick and didn't know the difference between right and wrong she's gonna run all over him, and i'm the guy in the back thats lookin' like the bad guy cause I really know what's goin on. And trust me, there's many more than that crazy situation lmao....

You know what I hate more than females who want the dix? Guys around you who want the pussy. Oh, my god... Really, I'm not interested in ANYONE (I mean, I want some pussy when I get horny, but I just beat off and then everything's good), but I guess you can say that my personality when I choose to be social is a bit of the 'alpha male/dominant' type (even though I like to joke around more than anything)...and my.fuckin'.god! I've had guys, friends and randoms, hate on me and try to 'cockblock' (you don't need to block dis cox) me just because a fuckin' female is giving me more attention and laughing with me. Females aren't the only sorry ones; every fuckin' body is sorry.

This topic depresses me. :(

It's because he read this post:

http://www.dallaspua.com/articles/the_truth_about_women.htm

you sound like an introvert LP. not an insult or a shot, just an observation. then again, i probably don't even know the meaning of the word.... so what do i know? all i know is that I read a blog post about introverts and how the author was one the other day... this post seems to fit what he was talkin about.

Mostly that it reinforces my theory that I will never understand relationships, women, people, etc; and therefore never be able to obtain them.

Oh God why would you post that? :(