In our game the one who appears to win is never the one who is stronger. Winning is a drug and like a drug pusher you may only encourage others to try it. It never lasts. The loser is stronger. Without the loser there is no winner.
It requires many more losers to support just one winner. Never forget it is not the winner who succeeds by pushing down those who hold them up, it is only the loser who may grow stronger for that weakness.
Strength is defined by weakness. The one who has no regard for weakness is the weakest. It is by grace we are made strong. Without weakness there is no grace.
The game may be a charade but the hand that feeds is very real. Online it's easy to forget you're looking at real people. Probably because all you see can only be the illusion of reality they create for you.
Which with this particular game usually involves caving your head in.