Ask a Virgin: Relationship Advice from Internet People

Well, if I'm with a new girl, my goal is to make her climax so she returns the favor (happily). That being said, it's fine to ask her what she prefers as you're doing it. Not like you gotta ask nervously, it's a valid question. I don't play games, yo!

Then again if you're trying to put on a fantasy, then sure, be like a porn star lolol.
 
Well, if I'm with a new girl, my goal is to make her climax so she returns the favor (happily)
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My goal is to beat dem guts and make it so she has trouble eating for a week.
 
Women generally want to be submissive, anyway, so my ego wouldn't get much of a boost from 'owning' her in bed. I feel more that way about winning in SC, 'cause it's a big fight for control. Anyway, it's the little things a girl is willing to do that makes me wanna brag...like just generally follow my commands/demands, or tolerate my absurd behaviour without even questioning it, lol. I guess I love pushing my limits.
 
Yo, B... So I take it with the mishaps, you didn't propose this past December? Oh and do what you do, homie. Most of these cats ain't getting any kind of snatch, and the lil' who are understand... Live your life, man. But of some real stuff, this thread's still hilarious!
 
Arrogant said:
Yo, B... So I take it with the mishaps, you didn't propose this past December? Oh and do what you do, homie. Most of these cats ain't getting any kind of snatch, and the lil' who are understand... Live your life, man. But of some real stuff, this thread's still hilarious!
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I took this lady to jamaica off my hard earned cash yeah, i propose that's what she expected from me. I'm basically just being me.

Her 5 main things she wants from me

1. To be her friend first before her lover.
2. Keep a smile on her face gotta make a lady laugh for any relationship.
3. Treat her with respect at all times. I struggle with this one at times because she does things that get too me.
4. Even though she has her own money and is well established. She expects gifts and other things from me.
5. She loves to fuck because she's in her prime and that's ok i guess but my head be in another place at times.
 
female prime 30-33
male prime 18-22

O.o

Great Scott! You've over shot by a few years...prime the 'Fux' Capacitor!
 
Dani_Hungerford said:
Why are guys so easy? Grab their dicks while your making out, wear your new YSL and they always want to FUCK. works everytime.
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@Dani i don't think that it's a matter of saying guys are easy... I know how i am though when it comes to women i think about sex 90% of the day doesn't matter if i'm at work chilling at the crib or playing the game sex is on my mind a lot. YSL lol that shit is in demand.
 
I knew i was in my prime when she walked up to me after we had sex and said teffy my pussy is sore. Women have climax more and hit their sexual peek at 40 i know because of my exp with older women.
 
I think you all just trollin women as a whole right now. Stop gettin your sex ed from MTV....have any of you actually ever...talked to one? It's not new to me to have guys think this way and it's going to be more open behind a keyboard...but really...?

They're not a template, and like both gender's it's diverse. You guys are too locked into stereotypical western girl as portrayed by Jersey Shore. This certainly has a healthy demographic, but it's by no means a constant. Look at dating sites and women are constantly stating they do NOT want these traits. BUTTTT....if you look at girls that base their values of trendy media...yeah. What you guy's are emulating is simply a trended lifestyle and ideology on sex that's actually laughable to people that know what they're talking about: sexologists, fetishists, anthropologists, psychologists, anyone wit ha reasonably diverse palette of women (many =/= diverse). I mean Dr. Laura might agree with you guys...but then you're on the side that Dr. Laura is agreeing with *shiver*

Girls (males too) generally like confidence which is usually guised over arrogance (this talk of yous peoples), so it's often a short lived fascination until annoyance severs it or perpetuates a flawed relationship (lots of those fun things amongst people who disagree with my side).

I'm not being "all knowing" or super feminist here...This is just an incredibly immature and laughable view that's often adopted by males as a form of compensation (AKA bro-mentality). My tip...buy a bigger car instead. You can be confidant, still do it rough, and not be a douche to do it.

Now stop having sex talks in a gaming forum...I think that speaks for itself
 
You know why most of you think you can't be a nice guy and get a girl? You're picking up girls in clubs.

The kind of girl who's looking for a one night stand or who'll advertise herself in front of a bar fishing for drinks is not looking for a nice guy.

Notice I say, the kind. As in there are multiple kinds of girl, and many different ways to catch one. You guys sound like idiots. Frankly I find your opinions insulting and degrading to women. My memories are filled with sweet girls who'd swoon when I kissed their hands or who'd take a walk with me and wrap themselves around my arm. And I was always a push-over, but they'd pick me up instead of walking on me. Truth be told. I don't know what else to say.
 
My model is to be yourself doesn't matter if you're nice or a class-A jackass actually the geek look is in nowadays i see chicks really digging the nerdy look now. Becoming the type of masculine man that women are uncontrollably attracted to is a process. As soon as you've think you arrived, you see there's another higher level on the horizon. Sadly, most guys never get started on this journey to adulthood. They remain little boys trapped in a man's body. But if you want to be the guy who has an continual stream of women in his life you have to commit to do whatever it takes to grow yourself into the man you were born to become.
 
You know I was reading a study that said girls usually have more than on dude they are seeing, they have a guy who they can be with emotionally and they have a guy who they fuck. Just sayin...
 
Juece said:
You know I was reading a study that said girls usually have more than on dude they are seeing, they have a guy who they can be with emotionally and they have a guy who they fuck. Just sayin...
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Well you've got some balls I'll give you that.

I think your view of humanity is pretty ugly though. Good people exist. Honest women too. And if you can't believe that, well life really musta thrown you a bad hand.
 
Ghengis_John said:
You know why most of you think you can't be a nice guy and get a girl? You're picking up girls in clubs.

The kind of girl who's looking for a one night stand or who'll advertise herself in front of a bar fishing for drinks is not looking for a nice guy.

Notice I say, the kind. As in there are multiple kinds of girl, and many different ways to catch one. You guys sound like idiots. Frankly I find your opinions insulting and degrading to women. My memories are filled with sweet girls who'd swoon when I kissed their hands or who'd take a walk with me and wrap themselves around my arm. And I was always a push-over, but they'd pick me up instead of walking on me. Truth be told. I don't know what else to say.
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If by club you mean on campus, grocery stores, parties, park, convience stores, theater, and lectures then yea, I only pick up the girls from the club. I'm sorry, but callin' me an idiot for my opinion makes you an idiot. I can't help but feel the way I feel by seeing the things I see with my own eyes.

The thing about it is....you will RARELY see me at any club, and that's real. I meet and greet women on a daily basis and truthfully, they've all had this same characteristics of bein drawn towards people who treat them like shit. When I'm goin to the cafe on campus and a chick says to a guy, 'you gay nigga' and said guy responds back with 'bitch shut the fuck up I ain't gay' and said chick says 'omg you have never talked to me that way' and she bats her eyes then you got no choice but to believe it! There's so many i've seen.

And I'm sorry Ghengis that sounds like somethin' that happened in the 50's, not now-a-days. There's only about 10% at most that even want what you said in that post. And if they are still just ok with what you said and still want a favorable relationship, then they're probably cheating on you, or wish you where alittle more vigorous. It's extremely rare that you will find a girl like that that would want a commited relationship and still have it last.

The thing about it is I'm a nice guy by heart but majority of my hook-ups came from girls finding me attractive, or when I treated them like I didn't care what happened. Ugh...I almost named another scenerio, let me stop.......
 
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