Ask a Virgin: Relationship Advice from Internet People

IvyFanboy said:
meh, it pays off every time I hear "oh that's what it's supposed to feel like!" and I guess it's totally sad I attract females by passive means and don't need to blow tons of money and ego to get something (or someone) done. You're just callin another girl a slut for bein prettier than you ;D
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LoL at IFB thinking the only way most guys get girls is by throwing money and their ego around. WTF are you talking about dude? I can pull a hottie just by making her laugh, shit a stray look and most are mine. You even made yourself sound pathetic because all you can get are rebound girls that are sad from having the players play them.

Your doing the same thing the other guys are. They are just better at it than you. I guarantee you, that you have to work 10X's harder than a guy thats a total dick to a girl just to get some or to keep a hot girl with you. Face it, girls like that shit... Whether they admit it or not, they like the assholes, the badboys, the rich ones, and the ones with big ehemm "Egos"

They dont like nice guys, sure maybe for a rebound to make them feel better about themselves, but after a while youll get old, boring, and they will want someone who's wild, crazy, mean to them, and fun again. If your nice all the time they dont really appreciate it, but when a guy thats always been an asshole is nice to them, wow watch them crumble.
 
RedDjinn said:
LoL at IFB thinking the only way most guys get girls is by throwing money and their ego around. WTF are you talking about dude? I can pull a hottie just by making her laugh, shit a stray look and most are mine. You even made yourself sound pathetic because all you can get are rebound girls that are sad from having the players play them.

Your doing the same thing the other guys are. They are just better at it than you. I guarantee you, that you have to work 10X's harder than a guy thats a total dick to a girl just to get some or to keep a hot girl with you. Face it, girls like that shit... Whether they admit it or not, they like the assholes, the badboys, the rich ones, and the ones with big ehemm "Egos"

They dont like nice guys, sure maybe for a rebound to make them feel better about themselves, but after a while youll get old, boring, and they will want someone who's wild, crazy, mean to them, and fun again. If your nice all the time they dont really appreciate it, but when a guy thats always been an asshole is nice to them, wow watch them crumble.
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shit.. let's have a toast for the assholes...the scum bags and all the rest..
I actually relate to this.

and I actually tell these girls; that's the fun part. I tell em the truth. I say I'm an asshole and every bad word you can think of, but i'm also a very nice guy. and i still land em.

I'll say this much.. It's always about averages.. never underestimate the law of averages. you can be a dick or a nice guy with a high average.. or you could be a dick or a nice guy with a low average... it's all averages.. but having said that..

i relate to this post. I really do.

and because Ivyboy needs to see this.. just for some perspective..

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real talk.
 
teflon2105 said:
Xeph, I'm at a different place in my life now which is exciting for me so every now an then my topics will reflect on personal life. I know many of my topics are about women but i've also in the past have made topics bout career, life, etc. Just getting other people perspective that's all. :) I'm not a videogame guy anymore so topics like these are mainly what i talk about.
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Don't you have friends to share this information with?
 
RedDjinn said:
I can pull a hottie just by making her laugh, shit a stray look and most are mine.
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ab pictures or i call bullshit.

also, as someone genuinely not interested, i can safely say that you guys are forgetting something crucial, which is being not interested. if you completely ignore the hot ladies when everyone else is trying for them, they will follow you...whether you want them to or not.
 
Xeph said:
Don't you have friends to share this information with?
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Yeah, Thing is i've been away from the website for awhile so i'm getting other perspectives. When things like an mature older woman comes into you're life it makes you happy and wants you wanna share the experience. From no steady girlfriend to making love in jamaica with an spanish mami it's special. Trust me when you start venturing out and go through your growing phases in life and come across that special someone watch how happy you're going too be.

Then my badboy creeps in like in that strip club on south beach i have a great lady back home but i'm telling a dancer to make me cum lol it's wrong but it's life i guess.
 
teflon that isn't your "bad boy" coming out. that is your normal human male coming out. the only mistake was letting your "sucka!" come out when you actually thought you needed to tell her about it.
 
My point totally blew over your head. I'm saying that you should try sharing this kind of shit with your personal friends; instead of a community where 60% met you, one time, and the other 40% think different of you.

What I'm trying to say is these topics are stupid. And majority will troll you.
 
i find random internet people to be just as, and often more insightful than my idiot IRL friends.
 
lobo said:
ab pictures or i call bullshit.

also, as someone genuinely not interested, i can safely say that you guys are forgetting something crucial, which is being not interested. if you completely ignore the hot ladies when everyone else is trying for them, they will follow you...whether you want them to or not.
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I had a picture up... You missed it... LoL
 
Xeph said:
My point totally blew over your head. I'm saying that you should try sharing this kind of shit with your personal friends; instead of a community where 60% met you, one time, and the other 40% think different of you.

What I'm trying to say is these topics are stupid. And majority will troll you.
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True majority will... but i really am at a different place in my life i'm just so happy with everything. But yeah, i see what your'e saying.
 
RedDjinn said:
LoL at IFB thinking the only way most guys get girls is by throwing money and their ego around. WTF are you talking about dude? I can pull a hottie just by making her laugh, shit a stray look and most are mine. You even made yourself sound pathetic because all you can get are rebound girls that are sad from having the players play them.

Your doing the same thing the other guys are. They are just better at it than you. I guarantee you, that you have to work 10X's harder than a guy thats a total dick to a girl just to get some or to keep a hot girl with you. Face it, girls like that shit... Whether they admit it or not, they like the assholes, the badboys, the rich ones, and the ones with big ehemm "Egos"

They dont like nice guys, sure maybe for a rebound to make them feel better about themselves, but after a while youll get old, boring, and they will want someone who's wild, crazy, mean to them, and fun again. If your nice all the time they dont really appreciate it, but when a guy thats always been an asshole is nice to them, wow watch them crumble.
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You misunderstand...I'm not getting them immediately after in an emotional vulnerable time...they all eventually hit that point where they get tired of the bullshit. And the idea you are boring and lame cuz you're a nice guy and assholes are the wild one's in bed....was myth invented by assholes to validate themselves.

Generally most assholes suck in bed. Why? Cuz their ego and poor communication skills have made them inept to learn. Girls that are attracted to these types (generally naive girls that grow out of it or mentally depressed/abused ones...oh joy). There is a balance between being totally Mr. nice guy but people always assume it's an extreme like Tom Hanks is the ideal person they seek to be. You can be nice and be totally wild at the same time.

I hit on women constantly, have an extroverted personality, probably done more things than 95% of the male population, and do it all without being a dick. And it's not like I'm some freak outlier...it's doable by anyone...just people act stupid and apply these "girls like assholes" bullshit. yeah it does work...but generally on undesirable females with personality issues that make them vulnerable to it. I would be in stupidly high numbers of women if I adopted the "act like a dick campaign", but it would be a lot of bad sex, I would have a douchy rep and never be able to sustain repeat partners (pro tip: people get better in bed when they figure each other out over time).

In short grow the fuck up and stop getting your "game" tips from rap videos. This is the reason my generation is so defect and drama prone.
 
IvyFanboy said:
You misunderstand...I'm not getting them immediately after in an emotional vulnerable time...they all eventually hit that point where they get tired of the bullshit. And the idea you are boring and lame cuz you're a nice guy and assholes are the wild one's in bed....was myth invented by assholes to validate themselves.

Generally most assholes suck in bed. Why? Cuz their ego and poor communication skills have made them inept to learn. Girls that are attracted to these types (generally naive girls that grow out of it or mentally depressed/abused ones...oh joy). There is a balance between being totally Mr. nice guy but people always assume it's an extreme like Tom Hanks is the ideal person they seek to be. You can be nice and be totally wild at the same time.

I hit on women constantly, have an extroverted personality, probably done more things than 95% of the male population, and do it all without being a dick. And it's not like I'm some freak outlier...it's doable by anyone...just people act stupid and apply these "girls like assholes" bullshit. yeah it does work...but generally on undesirable females with personality issues that make them vulnerable to it. I would be in stupidly high numbers of women if I adopted the "act like a dick campaign", but it would be a lot of bad sex, I would have a douchy rep and never be able to sustain repeat partners (pro tip: people get better in bed when they figure each other out over time).

In short grow the fuck up and stop getting your "game" tips from rap videos. This is the reason my generation is so defect and drama prone.
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lOl there are alot of ways your wrong here... but I aint getting into it... basicly everyone is different... To say that assholes are bad in bed is just stupid... too broad of a statement to make...

LoL and I dont get the it would be alot of bad sex thing? Really i didnt understand any of this post... I can do it either way, asshole or nice, depending on the sitiuation or just how im feeling that day really. For now though I been with the same hottie for 3 years, we have a kid together and she still rocks my world today. Im done with player days but when I did do it, I can tell you the mean way was way easier than the nicer way as it was all going to come to the same ending anyways... And they do want repeats even if their assholes... Shit most like it when you tell them flat out, look I just want to fuck... Youd be suprised how often that works. Vincent needs to get in this conversation
 
You're actually somewhat right. To just cover the admitedly broad statements (raging at ignorant statements made me conjur my own...sorry these people piss me off and i lose myself).

My point is you do not need to be an asshole and lie to be successful. Being an asshole might net you easy girls, but the drawbacks of that of that relationship and lifestyle limit your potential as a partner. Relationships built on lies and acting this way often mean poor communication and eludes to bad sex or limited appeal sex (you can be amazing to some people, but terrible to others and unable to make the adjustment). They also have the issue of generally short interaction with people because they are generally unsuited for long term or repeat interaction and limit their capacity to hone skills. This is a blanket statement yes, but it's fairly common to see individuals who embrace these perceptions for easy pussy and are oblivious to the issues it causes and limitations and then go around bragging about the successes of it despite the negatives.

Plus it's more rewarding to attract a person by being genuine and not relying on gimicks...eventually those gimicks lose their appeal. My ego stems from I can out do most people doing this crap and it's unnecessary to believe it's what you need to do get some. It's an immature and ignorant outlook and victimizes others.

lol i need to stop getting serious in these Teflon threads (the fuck was i thinking?). Whatever happened to the 39 year old? Lets talk about that shit.
 
So lying to make relationships work for you isn't being an asshole? woahhhh O_O

but seriously...what happened to the 39 year old..
 
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