Gay or Straight?

Gay or Straight?

  • Gay

    Votes: 50 25.1%

  • Straight

    Votes: 120 60.3%

  • Bi

    Votes: 29 14.6%
  • Total voters
    199
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Its like this, say you know you can trust a man, because hes a man, he thinks logically. You are attracted to the way females look. Add in the fact that porn has made you like the idea of anal sex more than vaginal sex, and there you have it, no need for the Vagina at all. You have A beautiful girl, whom you can trust and know isn't crazy/emotional/blah blah blah, plus you know that if it comes to satisfying them, you know what you like so it would probably work on them. The fact is, you know its a guy, but you are attracted to the fact it looks like a woman. Requires them to have augmented breasts and a hairless body. Not Nonsensical at all.
 
Bisexual, and still immensely confused. It's as if I force myself sometimes to try and not see boys attractive since being straight is seen as the norm in my stupid conservative family, but it's quite hard to resist lol.

Anybody that says being gay / bisexual is a choice is an absolute idiot, and rarely has any knowledge of sexuality. I tried to make being straight a choice, but alas I realized that all it was doing was sweeping my feelings underneath the surface, and that they would always be there regardless of whether I tried to hide them or not.

I wouldn't say that I'm out and proud just yet, but I'm still coming to terms with who I am.
 
Well, you should understand that it IS a choice. Keeping things under the surface is what being a person is. Are you always an asshole to people? You can be an asshole can't you, but sometimes you resist, you keep it under the surface. It's clearly a choice, you aren't forced to put your thingie into a man, or a woman.
 
Neo_Remirez said:
Well, you should understand that it IS a choice. Keeping things under the surface is what being a person is. Are you always an asshole to people? You can be an asshole can't you, but sometimes you resist, you keep it under the surface. It's clearly a choice, you aren't forced to put your thingie into a man, or a woman.
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How are you going to say that sexuality is a choice? Are you gay, are you bisexual? No... so how exactly would you know? I grew up in an uber conservative family, and I couldn't tell you the amount of times where thoughts about boys would linger in the back of my mind, and I always ALWAYS tried to repress them. But there came a time, where I couldn't take it anymore, and I knew that I was lying to myself. When you undergo the psychological mindfuck that I've gone through, then you'll be able to look at things from my viewpoint.

But then again in some aspects you are right. I CHOSE to be Bisexual, meaning I chose to be honest with who I am, and chose to be happy, and not put on this "straight" facade, I chose to live my life without being indenial.
 
"I'm straight, but I have a fetish for hot trannies... Bailey Jay for example. Would I go down? I don't see why not." - Nobody questioned your sexuality. I'm merely basing my interpretation on what you said earlier. And even KingAce didn't agree with that statement.

"Keeping things under the surface is what being a person is." - So are you implying that it's better to live a lie? If someone was gay, and they just left their feelings "under the surface" that would be detrimental to their psyche.

I respect your opinion, as I feel that everybody is entitled to their opinion, but please don't force your ideology onto me. Ultimately I don't believe it's a choice, so let's just agree to disagree. I don't really want this to turn into an argument.
 
Synraii said:
Ignore him jester. I don't even know the guy, but he was on my ignore list before he was posting on here, which means he's nothing more than a dumbass troll. After having read his stuff, he's confirmed it, lol.

And its not a choice.
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Hence why I told him "agree to disagree". He's clearly not looking at things from a rational perspective. It's so annoying at the amount of ignorance some people possess.

Thanks Synraii x
 
I think the "choice" Jester could be going on about isn't choosing what you have an instinctive interest in physically (impossible of course), but choosing whether or not to acknowledge those drives. I can make sense of that, but it's a poor "choice" since there's nothing inherently wrong with homosexuality of any degree. The stigma is very much the fault of tropes in society.

Also the stigma that still exists for bisexuals from a homosexual's perspective is ridiculous. I get why it exists, but I still find it ridiculous.
 
Wyde said:
I think the "choice" Jester could be going on about isn't choosing what you have an instinctive interest in physically (impossible of course), but choosing whether or not to acknowledge those drives. I can make sense of that, but it's a poor "choice" since there's nothing inherently wrong with homosexuality of any degree. The stigma is very much the fault of tropes in society.

Also the stigma that still exists for bisexuals from a homosexual's perspective is ridiculous. I get why it exists, but I still find it ridiculous.
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Thank you. I actually love this post <3 Bisexuality is awesome x

Societal customs are to blame for the fragmentation between people, and hatred to the world. Then again at the same time, I don't really like labelling myself as I feel could fall for anyone regardless of who they are. Although I have a preference, I never discriminate.

I wish people were more accepting, but I guess we'll have to wait another couple hundred of years or so until we see an ounce of progress.
 
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