I'm in no way saying nice guys get booty for this trait solely. There are many aspects to take into account...the only points im trying to make is you don't NEED to do this and if you do you inhibit a possibility of a better life style and partner by narrowing the type of women you'll attract and often attracting less than desirable emotional instability (or causing it...as most these women that are like this is because they've dealt with so many jackasses). It may seem like this is all you see because you can only attract those types of females. It's kind of like a racist wont have a lot of accurate views on another race since they're not attracting them as friends to gain insight...if you're offending the many other types of women...you're not going to have the encounter to get a broader concept of the diversities. The exceptions far exceed your 10%...try about 70%+ Ask yourself, why would a girl that doesn't want to be treated like that be within a social range of people that do? So to your limited social network, this person is a minority because they're else where to avoid it. I hate country music...so I don't see a lot of cowboys and stuff...but fuck if there's isn't a ton of them near my I just never see.