Going to be a little lawful evil here. You know what the easiest way to learn how to play is? Play against a spammer... consistently. Back when I was a noob SCIV, my friend learned how to do Cervantes' 6B+K, and SPAMMED the hell out of it. Yeah, I raged sure, but it didn't stop him from spamming the move. So instead, I learned, rather much more quickly than I usually learned. That was the day I learned how to properly execute a sidestep, and from that point on, he has never beaten me in a game of soul calibur...again (He recently used that dumb excuse I play too much)(anyone else have that moment?). So no, there is no such thing as a cheap win, if you lose to a spammer, then you obviously weren't good enough to win anyway, whether or not it kills the fun is irrelevant. (Note: There is an exception to broken combos, but nobody has found any of those yet, or so it seems.)
Are spammers ingrates? I would actually agree with that statement, but not because of what you think. Spammers... TRUE spammers, meaning the people that go into a match using the same tired three moves that kill noobs but do the exact same thing against pros and get completely smashed yet continue to do the same stupid move anyway, are simply annoying. If you don't have the ability to develop a strategy passed using the same 2-3 tired moves, don't expect EVER to be pro...