I've only read your first poster in your post and it's already a like from me.
When a person has ideas that they are denied expression by society what should be a pure expression of their humanity becomes a pent-up frustration which will still come out sooner or later in ways that may have become confusing, unpredictable and ugly.
When George Lucas made Star Wars at the time his ideas looked outlandish and many would've said they'd never work... You know why it did work? The man had a singular vision, he knew his story and he knew what he wanted to do with the characters in the world he created, which is the job of a writer... To put everything together and make it work, immersion is a fickle thing that you can't just make happen, a million little things can change everything and it's different things for everyone, it's like trying to make a youtube video go viral... It can't be done, it just sort of happens.
You can't please everyone, you'll struggle to please 1 other person let alone 10 or a thousand. People can be extraordinarily fickle when it comes to what they want, maybe they don't like how it turned out, maybe now they want something different instead, maybe they've changed their mind and don't want it anymore at all and that's just one person.