Promiethius
[09] Warrior
Don't see why you'd hate picking stages, I personally love selecting non-ringout stages whenever someone picks a ringout heavy character.
Either they will play normally in which case the stage would not matter, or they will be people who go for ringouts in which case you will have torpedoed their entire strategy simply by picking a certain stage.
Also, the lag on PSN must be pretty bad if all the things you say are true, live gets a lot of lag for this game but parries are very possible and only a few low attacks are made cheap.
In my opinion, Live service is better. The lag isn't so bad if you ask me. Also, if someone uses Hilde or Nightmare and you pick a non ring out stage, you are severly hurting them. When i play, I don't go for RO's, but since NM is so good at it, they usually get rung out somewhere along the line. Taking that away from them is unfair, its apart of there game...whether they utilize it or not. Shit like Soph, cage vs NM....such a downhill battle.